In choosing someone to share your love with

Sino pipiliin mo, Mahal ko O mahal ako?? Share your thoughs! :smiley:

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Mahal ako haha, Gratitude someone whose loving you

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if you take a closer look at it, choosing un taong mahal ka has a ton of/more benefits for you,…, so if will be under a very sound mind/judgment, I will rather go for someone na mahal ako kesa sa mahal ko. (pero di naman ako mahal or di gano kamahal) :ok_woman:

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Mahal ko. I’d rather gamble everything away and be hurt if things don’t work out rather than being safe sa taong Mahal ako pero nakakasakit naman ako. Kasi sya nga kasama ko pero mararamdaman nya naman saken na hindi sya yung hanap ko. I’d risk everything sa taong mahal ko kahit hindi man magwork out sa huli. At least naging totoong masaya ako.

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but would it be unfair for him as well that feelings aren’t reciprocated?

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ā€œI love youā€
ā€œthank youā€

huhuhu

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True. we can’t expect people to reciprocate the same feelings but it’s a good feeling that we give the love that’s overflowing in us.

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Hmmm…The answer to the dichotomous dilemma song was also based on the premise na kaya mo rin sana syang suklian ng pagmamahal…

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Let’s make this a bit more fun. Given this scenario.

You picked the Mahal ka and after a few months, yung tao na Mahal mo comes back and wants to be with you. Would you still pick the tao na Mahal mo and hurt yung tao na Mahal ka, knowing that there’s a slim chance baka kaya ka lang pinili ng tao na Mahal mo is because alam nya na mahal mo sya in the first place?

Lemme know please.

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I’d stick with the person na Mahal ako - not that I know that he loves me, but it’s been months and for sure I have been learning to love the person as well.

I’ve invested myself sa taong Mahal ko before, which I don’t regret - I loved loving him, but I am also a human being, I, too, have limits and life must go on. Him choosing me after all these times, knowing that he just wants me because I love him is foolish to accept.

I’d rather be with a person who unconditionally loves me.

(idk where to put this part) Usually, the one we love is our ā€œideal perfect personā€. The one who went within our preferences or more.

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yung mahal ako… already tried na piliin ang mahal ko but it doesnt end good. it made me feel that im the saddest person on earth

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may times na inaabuso ka nila kasi nga mahal mo sila… </3

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believe it or not… this happened to me thousand times na…and in both ways/choices,… I ended up miserable… siguro ganto na lang… its really better piliin mo yun mahal mo as long as mahal ka rin nya or mas mahal ka nya higit sa mas mahal mo sya (if that’s existing & its happening) that’s it… then you’ll experience less pain lol… :ok_woman: :sneezing_face: :gift_heart: