I met a really nice guy who is a friend’s mutual friend. We really got along and I think I like him? But I heard that he cheated on his last girlfriend from my friend and now I’m kind of iffy. Should I give him a chance?
i wouldnt even be considering being in a relationship with them lmao its an automatic disqualifier
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Idk, like I keep telling myself it’s important to give people 2nd chances and the opportunity to change, but sometimes that’s a lot to ask for. Like it’s tiring. Ultimately it’s up to you, if you’re willing to spend the energy.
If the guy or girl owns up to their own mistakes in the failure of their relationships then there is hope.
If the guy or girl tells their story where they were 100% the victim, id be hesitant.
Traumatic events like that involves an understanding of how they have contributed to the outcome. If they see no compromise then they haven’t not learned from their mistakes.
A CHEATER IS A CHEATER!! i believe if they can do it once, they can do it again
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Yeah, this is what I think too. I know there should be some capacity for them to change, but az a paranoid person I can’t trust cheaters to be faithful if they have a history. And it’s not my responsibility to give them a chance 