I caught my husband’s infidelities 2 years ago (it has been going on for 4 years at the time that I found out about it). Aside from that there were other sidechicks as well while I was pregnant & even before we got married. All these I discovered when he just flew outside of the country as an OFW (barely 3 months since he left). At that point I already decided that I don’t want to work it out, but is willing to keep up a brave face just so he could build a relationship with our daughter (7 years old at that time). Fast forward to now, he has been ignoring our daughter’s calls & acting jealous if I or my daughter go out to have fun. He has already failed as a husband, I wanted to believe he will still be a good father. However he is failing big time, Just this year, he has failed to provide allotment for 4 months out of 8 months. His main reason is he is going to school, but does that reason give him enough reason to stop providing? Shouldn’t that be planned properly? It’s not like my daughter will stop to eat and live & will just wait when it is convenient for him to give. I just hate him so much!!!
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hi @MotG this is really sad to know and but truly relatable… seems there can be a legal concern here and you can also ask help from or consulting a lawyer, the Philippine Consul here or in the country where your husband is, DFA, or from DMW too… and you’re right that him goin to school is not an excuse for not giving any child support sa daughter ninyo…
Hoping you can update us and I also encourage you to book with our Psychologist/s if you need someone who can listen and to talk with… 
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